One should assess himself before diving into the world of love and relationship. It is essential to evaluate and identify our reasons why we want to enter this complicated journey. If you will rush on this kind of matter you will end up breaking the whole “you”. It is better to take it slow and always remember there is a right guy God prepares for you. So, if you feel you are not ready to be in a relationship, go on! There’s no wrong with that. You are loved by many people including your family and friends. As they all say, the more you wait for the right love, the more love is satisfying at the end. It could be difficult to love someone again but you must bear in mind that love conquers all. If you free yourself from these negative emotions, I assure you that you can live a peaceful, loving, and contented life.
We all live in a world full of love and it is always great to love and to be loved by someone. It is one of the things that drive us every day. When two people decided to go out for a date, this means they are interested to begin and create a romantic relationship. Yet, if you think he is playing games with you and there are fire signs that you’re on the wrong direction, then this is the best time to end a date. According to psychologists and love relationship experts, there are major reasons why until today you are not ready to fall in love. There are people who rush in love but in the process, they forgot themselves and end up ruining their whole character.
If you want to know what these wrong perceptions about romance are, then, you are on the right page. Take your time and have fun reading!
1. You want to avoid the lonely feeling.
This sign indicates that you are not ready to enter a relationship. You should know that a relationship should be taken seriously. It is not a remedy for your loneliness rather it is one that would make you more determined in living life. You should always bear in mind that there is no perfect relationship always remember that you will experience highs and lows. There are days that you both are very happy but there are times also that you both feel sad and empty. These are the things that you should remember if you are in a romance.
2. Peer pressure.
You want to enter a romantic relationship because all your peers have their romantic partners already. This is a totally wrong perception! You should bear in mind that your friends’ lives are different from yours. As I have mentioned above, you must not rush this kind of matter. You would end up regretting it in the future. Happiness comes from within not from men. Thus, being single is so much better than being cheated on, lied to, and disrespected. You should always remember this!
3. You want to fill the emptiness inside you.
One shouldn’t enter a relationship if this is your main reason. There are many ways on how to fulfill your loneliness and emptiness. Entering a relationship would not guarantee you to have a happy and healthy living every single day. You would experience lots of bumpy rides before reaching happy and fruitful moments.
4. You believe that you can save a drowning person.
A drowning person means that he was drowned by his/her past relationship. A feeling that there’s no way out and moving on is unreachable. So, you always believe to save this kind of person rather than saving yourself first. Always put in mind that in order to help other people you help your self first.
Yet, we now live in a modernized world and before you enter the world of romance, it is better to know more about the language of love. This article greatly changed my views on love.